This life is never complete without the involvement of both genders at every stratum.
From religion to health
From entertainment and art to education
From family to economy
From politics to all territories, continents and nations.
With all sincerity, we need each other to survive, whether actively or passively the ultimate is that our survival depends solely on God through men (Male and female).
Whether you are married or single, you will have the opposite gender as a colleague, classmate, coursemate, neighbour, church member, customer, partner etc.
God created man as male and female, the absence of females was the beginning of the description called “alone”
Then consequently we can see the Bible addressing the implication of this uniqueness and how productive it will be to merge both (Male and female).
In the secular world, bringing both genders together to accomplish a set goal is one of the commonly used business strategies and productive service measures.
They believe that the strength for the weakness of a male lies with a female and vice versa. To have a balance and working structure it is essential to have a male and female in the diaspora of an organisation.
However, the greatest link to the fall of anyone is the opposite gender. When the devil has tried all and failed his last resolute is the man or woman in and around the life of a person. If no opposite sex can make you fall, to a greater extent your fall will take a very long while.
Getting Adam might be difficult but Eve made it possible.
Getting Samson might be difficult but Delilah made it possible.
Getting David might be difficult but a woman made it possible.
Getting Solomon might be difficult but women made it possible.
Remember Joseph, the devil tried to knock him down via a woman but he escaped.
The Devil tried many times to make Jesus fall by engaging the power of woman but thank God that God is God.
As much as we need the opposite gender for great exploit and balance we must be much aware that the same is also a weapon of destruction in the hand of the enemy, hence, clear boundaries must be set.
It is very wrong to stay with an opposite-gender alone in a place for a long period.
It is wrong to carry an opposite gender on your laps, it has a way of sending a signal to your emotion compartment.
It is a snare to keep receiving gifts from opposite genders when you have no intention of getting married to them or you are married. It weakens your strength for purity and decision to say NO.
It is dangerous to make a nude dresser a bestie, he or she will continually ride on your emotion and eventually lure you to sexual sin.
It is also wrong to watch films that embrace sex, with the opposite sex, whether alone or publicly. The problem is not where the problem is the state your mind will be. Many people might be there but your mind knows the action is for the opposite sex.
It is not right to engage in sex talk with the opposite sex or confide your sex life with the opposite sex. It triggers the urge for sex between the two of you.
It is not right to be touching the opposite sex sensitively.
As much as we need each other, we must be wise to set a clear boundary.
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